Archive for November, 2009

The mysteries of productivity | Step 1: Planning

Sunday, November 29th, 2009

The definition of productivity can be quite simple: achieve the maximum in the minimum amount of time. But in a day filled with 2 jobs (one of each being running my own business), a relationship, friends, family, personal care, hobbies… how do you fit productivity? And when does it become more important than that? When going grocery shopping starts feeling like procrastination, do you loose the boundaries of your personal life to the profit of your professional life? Or are they all just the same?

I read blogs, articles, books… Productivity is key. But productivity needs work. I decided to put myself through a test: follow the rules of productivity and see how far that gets me. There are tips and “how to” all over the internet… so I selected a few of them and I’ll try to apply them, one at a time. Readers are my witness and will hear about the ups and down of productive me!

Most of the self-help out there agree, the first step to productivity is planning. I already consider myself a decently organized person, and I always felt like planning too much would take away from life’s best spontaneous moments… Unless you start planning time for unplanned things… but that sounds sort of wacko, doesn’t it? But let’s be positive here… planning is certainly a good thing at least for the workload:

  • Planning this week’s client and networking appointments: checked
  • Planning this week’s dance lessons and training: checked
  • Planning some office time to work on my client projects: checked
  • Planning some time for working out and taking care of myself: checked

planningWhat’s left? It seems not much. But when I look at my week, I see a couple free nights to spend time with my man or my friends, and I see a weekend that is not loaded with computer time, but open for a lot of unplanned fun.

Now the next challenge will be to plan my “Office time”. If I read correctly the idea is to start the day by making a list of 1 to 3 goals to achieve that day. Sounds do-able… Let’s try to apply that to my upcoming week and see what the result is.

If you have any tips of your own and productivity secrets that you’re willing to share, please feel free to put them in the comment section. Who knows, I might take your word for it and make it my next productivity step.

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Dance etiquette – Top 5 rules on the dance floor

Monday, November 23rd, 2009

ballroom-dance-young-coupleIt might seem a given for most of you, but after frequenting dance-floors for a while, I’m telling you, it’s not. When you practice social dancing, there are a few rules to remember. Everyone make their own, and not everyone follows the same as I do. Here’s my top 5:

Be clean

I’ve danced with men who literally just came back from a run and skipped the shower. Gross. Ballroom and Latin are very intimate dances, if I’m going to be that close to you, I’m expecting that you’re going to give me the respect of making it a nice place to be. No body odor, no bad breath (that’s why there are mints floating around dancers all the time), no dirty clothes…

Be respectful

If you turn someone down for a dance, don’t jump on the next invitation for the same dance. Pass this one, have a glass of water. No need to crush anyone’s confidence, especially if they’re beginners.

Be conscious of your body

You dance, you sweat. That’s pretty normal if you’re human and there’s nothing wrong about it. Just be conscious of it. Avoid picking-up your partner’s hand and put it on the back of your neck in your next Salsa move. Once again… Gross.

Be honest

I went to a Swing dance party once and noticed an excellent male dancer. I invited him for the next dance and he bluntly told me “If you’re a beginner, I’m sorry, but I want to have fun tonight”. I told him I wasn’t and we had a great dance. But I couldn’t help but wondering how I would have felt if, indeed, I was a beginner. Most people at parties, will be happy to dance with you, even if you’re a beginner; we all went through that. So if you are, be honest. Just say so. And if someone says “sorry, not for me”, well, move on.

Have fun

You’re social dancing, not at a comp: stop checking if other people are looking at you, stop looking at yourself in the mirror, feel the connection with the music and the connection with your partner, avoid starring at the emptiness with a jaded look on your face… If you’re not having fun… then just go home.

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Marketing Snobism

Thursday, November 5th, 2009

Why are marketing people becoming such snobs? The practice of intellectual masturbation does not necessarily make you a good marketer… Sometime thinking too much about the means dilute the purpose of the campaign. There is a moment when we need to stop thinking and we need to start acting. Just saying…

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