In my post It’s rating men, I promised a description of all those “mankind” and along the week I did. Here’s the last one: the one that’s right for you. So ladies, where is your man? And guys, which speci-man are you? Feel free to comment and discuss, but all I hope is that at least I made you smile.
Rating 10 on Little Audrey’s “scale”: the One that’s Right for You!
The man of whom you see all the flaws and issues immediately but still makes your heart beat. The man who will take risks (even the risk of giving up is freedom) for you, because he thinks you’re worth it, and won’t complain about it later on.
Where to find him: Wherever you’re not looking. I’m still not proud of where I found my man so I will not give away that information, but trust me, it’s really somewhere I was not looking.
How to spot him: He’s probably the one that you will think “so not for me” at first sight, or first encounter; but deep inside, something already tells you that the interest is sparked and you want to know more.
How to seduce him: Seduce him? You don’t want to seduce him. You have no interest in him, remember: “so not for you”… So why can’t you take your eyes away from him and why do you instinctively maneuver to be closer to him?
What’s the catch: Oh wait, he could be the one. And if he’s the one you’re done: no more cat & mouse games, no more martini-afternoons with your girlfriends complaining about the whole man genre, no more first dates and their collections of sordid but funny stories… You’re out of the market. Are you ready for that?
Something a One that’s Right for You would say (and mean and make you want to say back): “I love you.”
A man whom your mother would love. A man so perfect that he leaves you wondering what can be wrong and why your heart does not beat faster as you check all the items down your list.
A man who lives for his art. Whether he’s a painter, sculptor, danser, musician or poet… his art comes first, you second and any material comfort could potentially come way down the list.