In my post It’s rating men, I promised a description of all those “mankind”…
Rating 5 on Little Audrey’s “scale”: the Commitment-phobe!
A man whom developed an allergic reaction to the words “girlfriend” and “relationship”
Where to find him: Anywhere… There is no rule to it, the Commitment-phobe is pretty much everywhere…
How to spot him: At first glance, it’s practically impossible. If in the conversation you’re able to get out of him that he has been collecting a few weeks to a few months “relationships” (note that the “R” word will not be pronounced) over the last few years, consider it a red flag. Red flag also, the one that talks a lot about how he got his heart broken (even if that happen way back when).
How to seduce him: Don’t put him on the spot, don’t ask anything, don’t talk about “moving to the next step”… whatever you feel like doing to grow the “relationship”, just DON’T.
What’s the catch: I think you might have guessed it by now, long-term relationships are not in the Commitment-phobe vocabulary. After a few weeks/month of happily dating and seeing each other on a regular basis, he might just broke it off without any other explanation than the following…
Something a Commitment-phobe would say: “I’m sorry, I’m just not ready to have a girlfriend.”
Tags: Men